Sorry to crush your feelings on a Friday ladies, but Michael Ealy is officially taken. Actor Michael Ealy married longtime girlfriend Khatira Rafiqzada … back in October but he just recently told his fans!

The actor, 39, and Khatira Rafiqzada, 31, wed in a private ceremony in Los Angeles. The couple has been dating for almost four years.

“Michael has always been a private guy, and he wanted to enjoy his time as a newlywed with his wife privately,” his rep said. “Now that some time has passed and the holidays are here, he wanted to share the news with his fans that he is married and very happy.”

SNIFFLES! Congrats!