Prior to the Reunion Special tonight, Kim Zolciak, of Real Housewives of Atlanta, addresses the rumors with PEOPLE.com about her friendship with NeNe, her breakup with big Papa, and how the show changed her outlook on herself. Check out some excerpts from the interview:

How are you and NeNe getting along? Have you had that glass of wine yet?

We have not had that glass of wine to be honest with you. Hopefully in the very near future, now that the show has calmed down and life is a little bit calmer, we’ll actually sit down and have a conversation. I heard that NeNe was upset about the footage of her [singing about me] in the limo. Her intention wasn’t to hurt my feelings. With that being said, NeNe and I have been friends for a long time. I think she’s great. She’s funny and entertaining, and my older daughter (Brielle) just adores her.

How did you feel when you saw the footage of NeNe singing about you?

I thought it was funny myself, but I was a little hurt by the stuff she said. At the end of the day, had she not been drinking and not been out having a great time, I don’t think that would have happened. I know her well enough. NeNe has a really good heart.

When you announced that you were 29, many bloggers cried foul, saying there was no way you were only 29. Can you respond?

I’m not a liar. You can put that in plain English. Integrity is most important to me. I’m actually 30 now, but I have to agree about some of the footage … I did not do own my makeup the majority of the time and there’s one instance where I was getting makeup done for a photo shoot and I looked 50. It was terrible. But you pound on that black eye shadow and big red lips, what do you expect? I’m sorry they feel that way, but the reality is I am 30 — and you can take it or leave it.

So you’re not with Big Papa anymore. What can you tell us about him?

We were engaged. And he’s a great person. He’s still a part of my everyday life at this point. I don’t know what the future holds. I’m crazy about him. And he’s great to my girls.

Has anyone guessed correctly?
Yes, I’ve seen his name stated on a couple of Web sites.

Any clues?
He’s not black; he’s not an athlete. He’s pretty well known across the board. If you were to mention his name, the people in his industry would know exactly who he is.

Another hot topic on the Web was your hair.
I’ll tell you that the hair comment has been pretty difficult for me. I’ll leave it for the reunion show. It’s discussed and it’s been incredibly traumatic for me. Wearing hair extensions wasn’t by choice.

More of Kim’s Interview on People

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